Sunday, March 29, 2009

Grandma Was A Flapper


My Grandma was the ultimate party girl in the 1920s. Always dressed to the nines, with perfectly chosen accessories, and a natural but complete makeup and hairdo, she held court in the modest family home in suburban Seattle she shared with her husband and son. She ran it like a drill sergeant, with everything always in place and ready for company, so that when Grampa came home on Friday evening, from his job at the Pike Place Market, the weekend round of parties could begin. The Federal Prohibition Act wouldn't stop them from having a good time!

They either went out to dinner and dancing at various speakeasies with friends, or they hosted a huge potluck dinner and beer party. Once in a while, they would have guests in for cocktails and a fancy dinner behind closed doors. But every weekend night, the party was on! Louis Armstrong, Grandma's favorite entertainer, blared from the Victrola, lending a frenzied and jazzy edge to the festivities. The food, usually spicy goulash, five alarm chili, or clam chowder, was followed by a huge cake with French vanilla ice cream. Neighbors and friends brought salads, fruits, and breads to round out the meal. The dining room table groaned under such a feast! But the real star of those parties was Grandma's homebrew. Her German immigrant father had taught her well. She made the best brew on the street!

She stored crocks in the huge upstairs bedroom, each with a date when the brew would be ready. When it was, she would provide the beer to the party. The following week someone else in their circle would bring their homebrew, and the following week another family would bring theirs. Grandma taught everyone how to make good homebrew, how to bottle it, and how to store it. Everyone had at least six weeks of brew curing in hideaways around their homes, so at least once a week, someone in their circle of about eight neighborhood families would have a batch ready to serve. The law allowed for the home creation and consumption of alcoholic beverages. [It did not allow for the manufacture and sale of those items.] As the circle of friends grew larger, and more families were added, at least two couples were required each week to provide enough beer for the party. Men often filled their hip flasks and brought that to the party, too. The corner bootlegger provided the stronger spirits for the neighborhood.

The house on the corner of 16th Avenue and 124th Street had a bedroom window on 16th that the bootlegger used to keep open on nice days. Pedestrians could sidle up to the window, trade a few bucks and continue on their walk with a pint or a quart of good Canadian Whisky in their pocket. When cars drove up, they usually parked across the street, the driver dashed across the street for his or her pickup. Funny thing, the house they parked in front of was the home of Grampa's older sister Aunt Maude who taught Sunday School and was a pillar of the Presbyterian Church. She frequently held church committee meetings at her house and it wasn't uncommon for a lot of cars to come and go in front of her place. What's another car or two parked there? Needless to say Aunt Maude heartily and vocally disapproved of the wild lifestyle of her younger brother and his pretty young wife. She and her husband never went to the weekend parties, though they would have been welcome.

Grandma's long gone to the Big Speakeasy in the sky. My Dad, who died recently, recalled that when he as a very small child, every weekend the boisterous house parties kept his Mother happy and in her element. She was a fabulous hostess, serving up good food and drink to their friends. It's her birthday today. Thanks for helping me take a quick look back at her lighthearted and carefree days so many decades ago.

Happy Birthday, Grandma!

9 comments:

grouchow said...

What a delightful story. And a backflash to the 20/30's.... Very original and well written. Really enjoyed the read. :)

Fleapirates said...

Great story, SF! She sounds like an exciting woman... thanks for sharing her with us!

Sunflower Ranch said...

Thank you Ace & Flea for your sweet comments! She was quite a gal! I have more stories... She's kind of a walking story machine. She still inspires my sister and me with shock and awe. Aw, heck, and love, too!! :)
~SF

Milli Thornton said...

I loved this! One of the best things I've read in ages--bursting with life and color.

The pic you chose to go with it was purrfect! I can't stop looking at it.

As I was reading I couldn't help wishing more people could read your reminiscing about your grandma. This is such a great tale already, seems like you wouldn't have to do much more than add some dialogue and some specific dramatic incidents to give it the kind of short story form you could get published.

(Of course, since this is about your grandma, you'd have to decide how you felt about taking creative liberties with her life. But she sounds like a fun-lovin' person and I bet she'd be proud of you!)

P.S. Sure wish I could have been a guest at one of your grandma's parties. And I know my husband would have *loved* her beer :0)

Sunflower Ranch said...

Milli! Thanks for your great comments! I thought about dialog and putting in some conflict -- but it was already going too long for a good blog entry [all the "rules" say 250 words YIKES!! I'm waaaaay too wordy for that!!!] and I hadn't put too much time into it yet. A couple of re-writes would help! I am a very slow writer. But this would be fun to develop. I would loved to have been at one of her jazzy prohibition parties, too!! When I knew her she was still cooking and hostessing but of course the secret element of forbidden drinking had been eliminated and she was decades older. I think her life [or portion] might make a fun screenplay. That would be of course mostly action with just the right dialog. And a great music score. Anyhow it would be fun! I have another blog entrie you might enjoy, in the same vein, an old family story. I'll find the title and post it here, below. It's one I wrote before I knew the secret of short blogs. Probably not appropriate, but this blog is a catch all of whatevers and kind of reflects my life on a day to day and that's what I was thinking about that day! LOL Thanks again!

Sunflower Ranch said...

Milli, if you have time, check out March 14th's entry "A Fine Irish Lad," which is closer to a short story than this one. Way too long, though, too for this blog thingy. But if I have mostly short blogs and a long one here and there, I'll be OK with that! LOL Also leave me more time for doing things like paying the bills and doing housework ... Thanks for all your comments & encouragement!

Milli Thornton said...

OMG! That's exactly what I was thinking--that it would make a FUN screenplay--but I didn't say that. I thought I was being nosy enough already with my suggestions :0)

If you do write it as a screenplay I would LOVE to be one of your readers. Do you know about Script Frenzy? Starts April 1.

If you want a screenwriting buddy for fun projects, maybe we could egg one another on by email or something....

Funny you should mention the issue of long blog posts. Just last night I was leaving a comment on Alannah Lynne's entry, Food for Thought, about her apologies for a longish post.

(Her "Food for Thought" was excellent--I highly recommend it.)

I've also agonized about this issue on my own blog. Maybe I'll write about that again now two bloggers have mentioned it. The conflict between writing what you wanna write and doing it according to the accepted standards (esp. to help promote a business, a book or whatever).

Anyway, I think what you did here was perfect. Your grandma memories made a superlative blog post--and now you're still free to write it as a short story to submit for possible publication.

Even if you got it published on a site where they don't pay you, it's still a valuable way to get more blog traffic (by providing the link to your blog in your author bio at the end of the story).

Or save this gorgeous material and write the screenplay! It's a win-win whatever you decide to do.

P.S. Soon I'll be publishing some topics for guest bloggers and inviting more writers to blog at Fear of Writing. Would *love* to have you as a guest. Will send you the link when I get it up.

Milli Thornton said...

I've got "A Fine Irish Lad" bookmarked to read on Wednesday... after I slam-dunk my first screenplay into the PAGE Awards hoop.

(I used that contest as my self-imposed deadline to get my first script finished--it's all done now bar the proofreading.)

I greatly look forward to reading your story! What fun. And thanks!

Sunflower Ranch said...

OMG Milli!!! Best of luck on the screenplay!!! That is sooooooooo cool!!! Keep me posted [or on your blog] about how that all plays out. I am very interested!! I had to put my writing away to take care of my Dad and now he's gone I'm slowly getting back into it. I get some emails from various screenwriting venues but I have been just deleting them, to avoid being unhappy about not be able to write for so long. LOL I will be in touch and love your ideas!! I'll check your blog for an email addy and we can do that. [or will figure out some way to exchange emails] Also wanted to say thanks for bookmarking the other story. I look forward to your comments! But right now, your task is to get that screenplay contest ready!! And again, Good Luck!!! I'm pulling for you!!! :)